Less than 3 weeks and he's already dating again
We were together for 3 years and then poof - "I love you but I'm not in love with you." How is this possible? There are not two more compatible people on the planet. We were going through a rough patch - caught him lying and I was having a hard time getting back to trusting him. Still in the same house - I have no where to go and he won't move out. I am moving in 6 days. But we've been civil. Maybe because I'm in denial and am wishing for him to come to his senses.
But he's started partying and not coming home. I don't even recognize him. He is absolutely nothing like the man I married. Here is the worst - he sent me a text that was meant for another woman:
"I have to go home and shower but then I would love to spend some time with you."
I was like WTF. He was all apologetic and claiming he's just being social. Right. Social is "Want to hang out later?", not "spend some time with you." I'm not an idiot.
But its KILLING me. I love him so much and I can't seem to let go that the next 50 years of our lives will never happen. I lost my everything, my best friend, my future. He has gone back to trying to be civil and whatever. But I'm dying inside. I want to talk to him and go out to the living room and watch TV with him but I'm staying here in the bedroom because I know that he is already sleeping with somebody else. I just can't even believe this is happening.
Please help - why can't I hate him? He deserves it. why is this happening?!?!?!?!?