life will never be the same...

by Louise
(UK)

My amazing Mum passed away suddenly & unexpectedly 2 months ago...I'm still in shock..she was a huge part of our lives, we laughed & cried together we saw each other nearly every day! She was a truely inspiring woman, brought 5 kids up alone, and a hard working, creative spirit.
She was my rock, always a listening ear a true Good Samaritan and such great fun!... it feels like my lifes light has gone out.
I can't believe I will never see her face on Earth again...it really is tough & it hurts physically & mentally.

I am trying to be brave for my family, but it seems so false, I'm amazed at who has been there for me (very few!) after all Mums & my support to all our family over the years..thats sad, & worse a little predictable..

Having to write cards, memorials,etc, all the horrible 'practicalities' of death, make it real & more painful.
Please keep us in your prayers, all we need is love x

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Jun 08, 2012
Life will never be the same again
by: Doreen England U.K.

Louise
Death alters our lives and you are right nothing will ever be the same again. It is hard trying to move forward when life is turned upside down.
Be yourself and you won't have to feel false about things. Be true to your true feelings as people will be able to see if everything is not going well they will pick up on things. Don't feel you have to be there for the family. Lean on others as those who care won't mind you doing this, they will be only too happy to support you and do what they can.
You will wear yourself out if you try to be all things to all people you will burn out. It is at times like this that you will find out the people you need to keep close to you and the ones you need to let go of.

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