losing my lil angel

august 16 1858hours i gave birth to a bouncing baby boy, he was cute and he meant evrithing to me, he was my bundle joy, unfortunately his life was cut short, as he passed on the 18th august, i was vey devasted n wandered why me?? even now i still ask myself why he had to leave me so fast, i really miss him. im just left with the scars of giving birth but no baby..

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Nov 06, 2012
losing my lil angel
by: Doreen U.K.

I am sorry for your loss of your baby 2 days old. It would be a good idea to see a grief counsellor so that you will be able to be supported better as you grieve your loss. If you didn't grieve well this may affect any future pregnancies, and you need to have a happy disposition whilst carrying a child so that you don't pass on any depression to the foetus.
I was depressed in pregnancy and my son was born in distress with the cord wrapped around his neck, arm, and groin. Had I had a normal birth my son would have died. But the depression has left its marks on him now a 43yr. old adult. He cries a lot and this is what I did when I was carrying him. My husband never liked to see his Adult son cry like a baby. This angered him. I felt responsible. My husband died of cancer 6 months ago. I grieve my loss of him, and my loss of my Adult son who is not able to resolve his depression, and walked away on the day of the funeral.
You will quite naturally have to have a time of grief, you carried this child to full term. Gave birth and then lost him so soon after birth. This is a tragedy every parent dreads.

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