On Tuesday April 28th, 2009 I gave birth to a precious baby girl whose name was Milan. Milan was born at 8:32pm and lived for approximately 1 hour; she only weighed 14 ounces and was 11 inches long. I was only 22 weeks pregnant but I was attached to my baby. I miss talking to her and feeling her kicks inside of me. I don't want to question God but the pain is so unbearable that I find myself questioning him anyway. I feel so alone. I feel as though no-one understands what I'm going through. I guess as time goes on I will feel better but right now this pain is unbearable, I just can't seem to stop crying.
My daughter was born on 8th april 2009, she lived in this world for just 21 months..... I remember everything about her... Sorry for our loss.....
Sharing in your pain by: Anonymous
My daughter Lillian was also born in April.. she was roughly 21 weeks. She lived for about 20 minutes. I know how hard the pain is and how sometimes it feels like the tears will never stop. I wish you strength to deal with your feelings and may you always keep the memories of your daughter while she was inside of you close.
So incredibly sorry . . . by: Audrey Huggins
I am so sorry for your loss of Milan. My heart aches for you, as the grief is overwhelming that only the mother truly feels. You are a mother for the rest of your life! Hence, I recently lost a baby at 8 weeks and feel as if I had her forever and still can't come to accept the loss. Please take care of yourself and don't let anyone tell you to "move on" or "it was for the best". Those are platitudes that have nothing to do with your loss and grief.
My sympathies,
Audrey Huggins
