I am grieving the loss of my 23 year marriage. Even though the decision to end it was mine I am still grieving. I did not get married at 17 thinking that it would end with separation. It just fell apart. It took me 5 years to make the decision to leave it. A friend of mine said to me once that it doesn't matter who ends it, it still hurts. Its not easy for anybody. So my grief is very deep because I have to start my life again. One day though I will look at that as an opportunity. To all those people who are grieving for what ever reason please know that someone in this world understands your pain. And may god bless your life. Just know one thing - You are worthy of happiness.
I AM GRIEVING OVER THE END OF MY 15 YEAR MARRIAGE, MY HUSBAND DECIDED HE WAS DONE WITH ME AND TOOK UP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN. THE HURT IS ALMOST UNBEARABLE, THINKING OF HIM HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE OTHER THAN ME AND THERE IS NOTHING I CAN DO ABOUT IT. NOW HE WANTS THE HOME AND DOESN'T CARE ABOUT HIS SON OR GRANDKIDS WHO LIVE IN THE HOME ALSO. NOW I MUST BEG AND BORROW TO GET UP MONEY FOR A LAYWER TO PROTECT ME AND MY KIDS.
God the pain is terrible by: Angelina
I read your post about your pain and grief over your lost marriage. I, too, have lost my marriage. After 15 years of marriage, my husband admitted to me that he is gay. I am devastated that I spent 15 years blaming myself for our stagnant marriage. But also angry that he had the key to why it was not working. He chose to keep me in the dark in the closet with him and not reveal his sexual orientation. I grieve for the loss of trust, the years of self-loathing I had because he lead me to believe that there was something wrong with me and the death of my dream of marriage.
I am so sorry for your pain and pray it lightens in the days, months and years to come.
