Loss of trust, caused by betrayal
I learned recently that my husband propositioned my sister - almost 2 years ago, and learned subsequently, that he was seen by another sister, out having dinner with a woman about 5 years ago. Turns out, my entire family was aware of these betrayals all these years, but never told me. My intense sadness and anger is not directed at my family, but my husband. Are these betrayals only the tip of the iceberg? If he would proposition my own sister...what else has he done? I still can't wrap my brain around this situation, and not sure what stage I am in - as I seem to vacillate between deep sadness and anger. I have lost something so precious - trust...is it gone forever? How do I rise past this? Is forgiveness possible any time soon?