by Anna

7 years, almost 8. I went away with work for a couple of months (4) and I came home, he was sad, maybe he was before I left but I didn't see it clearly. I think maybe we were both sad. We were once perfect and we took each day as it came. Suddenly I'm at a loss, he left and turned away from me, decided to put himself first. That's all there is to it. You have to swim on, learn and never regret anything. I don't regret one moment :) in fact it teaches me more about him, life and love - he is a great guy and he believes in love - I do too and we continue our search x

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Oct 13, 2014
by: Doreen UK

Anna I am sorry for your loss of the man you LOVED. You have such a MATURE attitude to your circumstances that will Bless and support other's struggling in this area.
When a person walks away from a relationship it can be devastating. But knowing one's self, and having a healthy self esteem does help one move forward better. Realizing that one can do little to continue a relationship if both parties are not able to continue this. Acceptance is the KEY to moving forward and changing FOCUS. Only then can one feel more secure and able to move on with their life with NO REGRETS. Able to learn from life's experiences can help one to grow and from life become wiser. You just decided that life's lessons made you "BETTER" and not "BITTER." I wish you the best in life and may your troubles be small ones. (we all have them). Best wishes.

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