Lost 2 children in 4 years

by GAIL Ubych
(Scotland )

4 years ago I lost my son not long after he was born docs realised there was something wrong with him only when he was born he had a muscular condition that was never explained and he passed away at he age of 4 half months old we were told that this would never happen again and now 7 days ago I went to have a growth scan to realise that she had died i gave birth to my little girl when I was only 32 weeks pregnant which is called still born there was no sign to show us that she had died before the scan I am finding this very difficult to deal with as we were told that this child that I would be having would have been find I can't eat and I can't come to terms of why this would happen to me again I am only 30 years old and finding this very hard.i have 2 beautiful boys before any of my other children had died.mine and my husbands chromosomes are fine and there's a porsmortom being done which they think they might find there bring nothing wrong I just can't deal how it keeps happening I am a good healthy person.we also lost my step father of cancer in sept of 2012 I just feel someone is out to get us and wish someone would wave there magic wand to wish us some luck I am lucky to have a wonderful husband and 2 beautiful boys but can't get over my grief.

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Feb 25, 2013
Lost 2 children in 4 years
by: Doreen U.K.

Gail I am sorry for your loss of 2 babies in 4yrs. and for the grief this is causing you. I am one of 6 children so I can understand the joy of having a large family.
God is our creator. Why not have a chat with Him and ask Him Why? Pray over your womb and life and ask for God's blessing on your life, your womb, and also your ability to have more pregnancies that will come to full term with a healthy child. My daughter was distraught at never having a child. She waited 5yrs. before having her first then now a girl. One of each. It is a very distressing time in a woman's life to lose a child. My sister's mother-in-law lost 8 babies and only had the 2 boys. It affected her mentally. But make sure that your body is rested and in good healthy condition for pregnancy and then ask God's blessing on your family. What God will give you will be meant for you.
Every blessing to you and may God comfort you in your loss and sorrow. From a fellow Scot.

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