lost 6 family memebers in 18months

by kimmie

my nan died 21st jan 2013 stroke suddenly healthy on minute gone the next

june 2013 my auntie died suddenly on hoilday

8th april my mum died 2014 in hospital after operation died within 4 days no warning aged 68 and im 33 years old

21st novemeber 2014 my favorite auntie died stroke without warning on my mum birthday and just before xmas

and 2 other auntie since im on my knees the pain is too much all the men are still a live in my family which is nice but being a women feel like a rare breed only 4 women left in my whole family now and im the youngest

really scared of what will happen next

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Jul 12, 2014
lost 6 family members in 18 months
by: Doreen UK

Kimmie I am so sorry for all the multiple losses you have experienced in your young life. It is enough to make anyone scared of what will happen next. It makes you feel very vulnerable to loss. I lost my husband of 44yrs to cancer 2yrs. ago and I felt very vulnerable wondering who will be next. I still feel this way. Death takes so much out of our bodies and emotions that you can't even begin to think visiting this place again for a long while. My youngest daughter is your age, and she is worried about losing me. after losing my husband which was a shock I have had to put plans in place for my own death so that my daughter does not have to deal with too much. You have to tie up so many details when one dies that it is so exhausting. It is important to make a WILL. So much can go wrong and it just makes life easier on one hand but a problem for those who are wondering what is in the WILL and will they be remembered. Life is never the same when you start losing family members. I lost my mum 11yrs. ago and only just recovered from this grief. It will take me longer if ever from losing my husband. My daughter still misses her father and always will. Best way forward is ONE DAY AT A TIME. this is how I am still coping.

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