lost and so alone

I sit here wondering if I am meant to grow old alone?

I know longer date the most wonderful woman I think I will ever have the pleasure of knowing.
Unfortunately she is so emotionally damaged from a prior relationship that she can longer find love or trust another man.

She didn't think she would hit the wall emotionally with me like she has in other relationships since her divorce..but she did.
She was always honest with me, and I guess I always new this could happen, but I had hoped that this time would be different for her.
My fear is that she will continue this pattern..despite the fact she has sought professional help..she doesn't seem to be getting better.

If only you could know her..you would see how amazing she is..She fears she is doomed to grow old alone due to her bruised heart.

Right now I feel lost..we had made plans for a future together..

Not only do I wish for the day that I recover from this..but I pray that she finds what she is looking for.

I just can't face the fact that I must once again at some point down the road try to find my elusive "soul mate".

Not sure if can trust anymore either..

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Jul 22, 2011
a mirror
by: Anonymous

This is such a mirror. I am that woman who just lost the most wonderful man that I was planning on spending the rest of my life with. I was not able to trust due to betrayal in a previous marriage and much needed emotional healing. I feel hopeless, but I cannot give up on hope. Without hope, what's left? I believe that we are here to help each other learn to trust and love again. Thank you for your post. Keep the faith and hope for the future.

Mar 10, 2011
So sorry
by: Anonymous

I'm so sorry. I know how it feels to lose someone you love so much and wish the best for them even if it's not with you, but the pain of them not being with you is overwhelming and it's almost like you can't function or cope. I don't have answers and like your ex have too tried professional help to help me, but after thousands of dollars I can honestly say it didn't help me at all. All I know is that God is in charge and he knows what is best for us more than we do. Somehow it will work out. How? I don't know. I know it's so hard to see anything beyond the pain. I hope that one day you can feel the happiness you felt with her. I wish you the best.

Dec 20, 2010
by: Gigi C

don't worry, your lost feeling will be easing from time to time.

I'm just going over a divorced zone, too. I feel so lost and alone, and you are such a great person. You did go through a path with that lady, right now, yes, you are losing her. But think of alternative way, maybe you guys are not meant to be together(ouch!). Typing this to you, i feel myself is with you, too. In the near future, i believe we are not the loneliest person in this world, there are many of us. We just need to stay focus and walk through it. Yes, it's in pain, but WE WILL BE FINE!

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