Lost Mom!!!!!

by Sandy Davis
(South Carolina)

I lost my daughter, Annette, in May of 2012. On April 6th, she suffered a sudden brain aneurysm and was rushed to the hospital. For the next 5 ½ weeks, I sat by her side and never left. She would get better and then take a turn for the worse over and over again. In the last 10 months I have struggled for any sort of understanding as to why this had to happen. They said that she was probably born with it (she had just turned 34 years old). Why didn’t I see something……. She left a disabled husband and two wonderful sons. I have always thought my faith in God was strong, but now I am trying to find the grace, mercy and love that I believed was God. Since I lost my daughter, I have now found out that my son, who is 33 years old has 2 aneurysm’s in his brain. We are working through this now. Please pray for us all!!!!

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Mar 12, 2013
Lost Mom!!!!!!!
by: Doreen U.K.

Sandy I am sorry for your loss of your daughter at such a young age, and for your son now to be suffering with 2 aneurysms and the stress this leaves you with. The loss of your daughter will make you vulnerable to loss and the concern for your son's safety and life.
You did nothing wrong and couldn't have discerned what was going to happen. With an aneurysm there are no warning signs. This happens so fast that often people die immediately. My brother-in-law is fortunate he had one in the hospital. If not he could have died. Often one doesn't even make it to the operating theatre.
I lost my husband to a deadly cancer 10 months ago after putting him into the hands of God and emailing all over America on the God channel for his healing. I got so many replies and I felt secure and belief. I sat waiting for my husband to recover By a miracle. Instead I witnessed him draw his last breath. If felt let down my God. I was Angry with God for a long time. I was disappointed. Full of sorrow. I know how you feel. When we believe in God we have this expectation for Healing. There is nothing wrong with this. When death comes we have to go through the stages of grief. Till we find healing. But as the song says. "Farther along we'll know all about it." God knows what we go through and we have to ask for the Strength to go through it and find our healing. May God comfort you and give you the strength to get through your loss of your daughter and the strength to cope with your son's distressing aneurysm. May you be well supported.

Mar 11, 2013
Your loss
by: Kate

I am sorry you know this deep loss of your child as I do my son. It is never ok and we will miss them with us forever. Now you have your son as well with this concern. We can't find God because our hurt is covering over everything right now. God is still shining his light,we are just in a darkness that overshadows this. Death is tremendous pain sorrow and grief but go one day or minute at a time. You are not alone one here. We are all mourning. We care for one another through the same thread. Go slow.

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