lost my dad at 61
by October 2011
hi i went down to the hospital to see my dad he was having a minor operation nothing serious. he was 61 . the day of the operation he was in good form and i said i will see you after the operation. we went for something to eat and when we came back my phone rang there had been a complication in theatre without going into all the detail he had a panic attack and had to be put on a life support machine. i never thought he was going to die for ten days i went into see him and thought he was on the mend but we were told he wasint strong enough to fight. we had to let him go. i cant write anymore about it or il start crying its nine months and it only feels like yesterday. its so hard and im 30 the youngest is 19. i miss him so much and i hope hes with me i really do but sometimes its hard to believe in all that.
anyways thats my story i feel robbed and so does all my family it was such a big shock to us. to lose your dad at 60 is hard to know he will never see his grandchildren or see any of his kids get married. it heart breaking.