Lost my father on 4th December 2009

It is nearly 4 months now and it is getting harder. I know I am in a process but it feels very weird. I don't know which 'stage ' of grief I am in. I felt quite numb for a long time.

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Apr 14, 2010
Will I ever heal?
by: Anonymous

Not really sure exactly what the stages of grief are either, but I seem to be going through them all at different times. I have been pretty angry lately. Like you, there are times when I just sit and cry. They say time heals, well, I'm not quite sure exactly how much time they are talking about. I feel I will never heal from this as I think about my dad every single day. I will pick up his photo and just hug it and cry. I don't know why God decided to take him when He did, but I know there is a plan for all of us. Not having my dad here has left a huge hole in my heart that will never heal. My thoughts and prayers are with you also.

Mar 24, 2010
by: Rhonda

They say there are several stages of grief, and yet there is no set guideline for going through them. From my experience, I have felt numb, then out of the blue I crumble to my knees in such pain that I can't stand it.

I find that the memories are absolutely flooding me and I can't do anything but cry. Although I feel extremely grateful that I was chosen by God to have such a wonderful daughter, and loving father.

My daughter Brandie was barely 24 when she passed away from a hemorrhage in her lung. And my father passed away 4 yrs ago from a heart attack. I miss them more than ever.

I am so sorry for you loss.

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