Lost my fiance to cancer.

by Sy Oliva
(Homestead, Fl)

On Nov, 26, 2012 I lost the most precious person in my life. She was my best friend and the woman I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. She had a cancer called Rhabdomyo Sarcoma. She was only 18. Now im left all alone. It would"ve made 2 years on Feb, 7. Im so heart broken and miss her so much . I dont really talk to anyone about it which makes it much harder. We had the kind of relationship that most people dreamed of. She was the sweetest girl in the world and didnt deserve it.
Everyday i go to bed just thinking i might see her only because i dont wanna accept the fact that it happen. Not to many people understand what it feels like to be in this position and especially not at my age (19). There are so many things i just want to share with her and just to have her in my arms again would be a dream come true. I was so positive that she was gonna win the fight and sadly was let down.

R.I.P Ana M. Vazquez

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Aug 14, 2013
by: Kristin

I am so, so sorry for your loss. I can relate being so young, 26, and losing my boyfriend who was 4 days shy of turning 25. He, like your fiance, was so kind and did not deserve what happened to him. I am really new to the grief process as this happened only 3 weeks ago but I just wanted to reach out to let you know you are not alone. I hope you are finding some peace, as I am praying for it everyday. I will add you to my prayers along with your fiance. Please take care.

Jul 16, 2013
Lost my fiance to cancer
by: Doreen U.K.

Sy I am sorry for your loss of your young fiancé to cancer. That ugly disease is claiming more and more lives. I lost my husband to a deadly cancer 14 months ago and I never thought cancer would touch our lives the way it did. It ripped through our family and took such a precious man from me. I know how you feel. Your fiancé was so young and you had your whole lives ahead of you. It makes one feel hesitant to plan for life because when you do it is snatched away so fast you don't have time to prepare for such a loss. Part of grief is the disbelief that this happened. None of us knows how bad grief is till we go through it. It seems to last forever and every day is an uphill struggle to go on. You are so young and have your whole life ahead of you. Try grief counselling to help you move forward. None of us wants to think of moving on with our lives but something we have to do whether we like it or not. None of us knows how to do this. Grief is so painful and somehow it feels such a useless flow of energy that leaves us feeling as if we have been hit with a stun gun and recovery is so hard and long.
I hope you have supportive family and friends to help you through your grief till you can find your way back to living. But don't put your young life on hold. Do what you have to do to recover from grief and start to live again. Life is too short even for the young to lose a day of it. I wish you Comfort and Peace from your loss and I hope life gets better for you in the days and months ahead till you can see clearly to pick up the pieces of your life.

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