Lost My God

by Ramit Singh
(Toronto,Ontario,Canada)

My name is ramit singh, I lost my dad with a sudden cardiac arrest on June 9,2012. He was the best father, best husband and a best son. I miss him each and every second of my life. Since the day I lost him I have been crying every night. I am very tough guy, never cried in my life but the pain of loosing him has shattered me into pieces.
I wish I could tell him "I LOVE HIM" you were my mentor,friend,father and my god.

Miss you dad

your worthless son
ramit

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Oct 23, 2012
sorry
by: Sunil

Hi Ramit, very sorry to hear that your dad passed away. This is a very painful loss indeed and such a pain will not disappear soon. As the saying goes 'what can't be cured, has to be endured'. i lost my dear father to cancer recently and can understood how hard it must be for you. hang in there and I hope you will feel better sometime!

Oct 23, 2012
Lost the most important person in my life
by: Doreen U.K.

Ramit I am sorry for your loss of your father who was almighty in your eyes. Don't compare your dad to god because there is only one God to be Reverenced and You can call out to Him for your Comfort and Peace from your grief.
It is a very painfull experience to lose a father who has been such a perfect example of love and nurturing as you describe your father to be. Crying is part of your grief and is where your Healing comes from so don't stop crying. One day it will get less and less.
You sign off by saying your worthless son. Your father was a great man in your eyes who would be unhappy to hear his son describe himself as worthless and if you use this term in comparison to your father, you can't compare yourself to your dad. You are not old enough and lived long enough to know what you will become in life. But since you had a good foundation and a father like you had then you are worthy to be called his son.
With the right attitude you will go on in life to emulate your father, and be the son he would have been proud of. Think positively about yourself and you will go through life better and have less self esteem problems. You are a unique person as was your father. God created it that way. Don't go through life comparing youself to anyone. You will get through this painfull grief one day at a time and you will find life better and happier as the days go by. Grief is a journey and it takes time, but it won't last forever. Hold onto this. It will be your guide through your Grief and loss.

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