lost our first baby boy

by vin

I conceived after 2 years of marriage. We were very happy.I was 34 weeks pregnant. Dr suggested usg for which he found that i have low fluid of 6 to 7. He suggested immediate cesarean on 04/08/2014. At 8.55 pm my baby boy was born i just saw his back side. Soon after he was born he was having breathing problem and shifted to nicu in some other hospital. Dr said since he is premature born need to be kept in nicu for 4 days. All were very happy since baby boy was born. At around 3.30 am got a call from nicu tat my darling baby is very serious and my husband was called there immediately. Dr said his lungs are not developed so he cannot breath. At around 7 am. My darling baby passed away. I was not told about all this.. my family took him for final rituals without showing me. I came to know after 3 days. I never got to see n will never be able to see him how he looks his eyes nose his lil hands legs. I cant bear this pain. I want to try for baby asap. I know nothing can replace him.

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Aug 17, 2014
For Vin....
by: Anonymous

Dear Vin, I hardly come to this site any longer. Maybe a couple times a year but this evening as I was deleting my emails I was moved to read your Post about your precious little boy. I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my youngest daughter five yr's ago in Sept. She was taken away at the young age of 26. After reading about your loss I wanted to send my prayers and words of support to you. I am sure that you must feel haunted by not being able to hold your son and be there to say good bye. I don't think any of us who have lost a child ever have real closure but I feel at least we were given the chance to say our good byes. I am sure your son is at peace and he knew your love. You carried him for all those months and You are still his mother. Nothing will Ever change that. Maybe you should try and write a letter to your son and tell him the things you wanted him to know.

I hope that in time that you will be able to try and have another baby. I will keep you in my prayers and hope that in time some closure/peace will come to you.

God Bless You and Keep You Strong.


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