My husband had three great kids. They were here as often as they could be to vista and help with dad. My husband passed away in Sept and in Oct we had a service for him. Now the kids have gone back to there lives and now I am a lone. There mother has had health issues so I am sure that she is number one sense as his oldest girl said before leaving we had to set mom on the back burner now it was time to take care of her. I really am trying to understand yet I feel so a lone. Like my husband was the only reason the kids came around. I thought we had a good family fit. Like I said I am trying to understand but feel like I have been dumped. And the pain cuts like a knife.