Married 18yrs

by Kate
(Uk)

Evey marriage has ups and down, but good memories and you both learn each others ways, dislikes likes, etc. That's what makes it hard to get over having that companion you have got on with for so long. My husband was a shy man and wasn't much of a socializer so to my complete shock he told me he was leaving me; to make things even worse it was to be with another woman. He never used networking sites but somehow got in touch with an old school friend, she actually has been butting into what's going on, sending me texts, etc., saying mean things to me and he is taking her side. My daughter is angry with him and does not want to see him, I've changed my number so if she contacts me again I will go to the police for harrassment.

I just feel miserable and stupid like I should've noticed warning signs; we had been apart 6 weeks when I found all this out. It's now going into month 3 and it still seems unreal, part of me wants him back and part of me says not after what he has done. At the moment I am trying to do little different things each day but then I get one moment of weakness and start getting upset.