Matthew Logan Perry- 1998-2014

by Jennifer Ammons
(Stanley NC)




Your on my mind every second of my day I love you I will see you soon love mom

My precious 16 year old boy, left on his lil sisters bike to his friends house , he said he was going out for a smoke.My last words {I love you} no one knew he. Left. 7:54 pm he was struck by an SUV it was actually his friend ,a 16-year-old girl that was texting while driving .he died instantly. She pulled way up the road and just parked thank God a woman came and held his hand als he was dying I have four other children I have no emotions just the the sadness... December 18th 7:54 pm, my life will never be the same..

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Mar 27, 2015
God bless everyone
by: Jennifer Ammons

sorry I have not replied to any one of been very down..but I love you all and I'm going to try to get but on later everyone of your words touched me and everyone of you thank you love you:)

Mar 24, 2015
Not the natural order of things
by: Virginia Peck

It is not the natural order of life for a child to predecease their parent. I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my daughter over 6 years ago. Everyone deals with the loss of a child differently. When my daughter died, I resolved to not let my grief over losing her cloud the love I have for her sister, my husband and my grandchildren. I did not want to send them a message that she was the most important person in my life and their place was secondary. I have tried to re-direct the love I directed to her to the rest of my family and show the love I have for them even more so. The last words we spoke were, "I love you." and "I love you too mom." That brings some solace. Just take it a day at a time. The loss is too raw, too fresh to even consider how you feel. Know you are not alone.

Mar 15, 2015
Matthew Logan Perry - 1998-2014
by: Doreen UK

Jennifer I am so sorry for your loss of your young precious son to an untimely sudden death. As a Mom your heart will hurt for a long time as you try to process your loss and how short your son's life was.
This is a mom's worst nightmare. The thought of losing a child at any age. We are not meant to live with this fear so we soldier on taking care of our loved one's on a wing and a prayer for their safety and long life. It is a parent's hope that her children will live long happy lives. But this is not the case. WE are losing our children more and more at a young age. The earth is claiming the lives of many children. You can feel secure that you gave your son the best life you could and that you told him You loved him in words and deeds. This is all a parent can do. Only time will heal those scars and dry your tears. This is a very painful journey you and many parents take when losing a child. May God comfort you and strengthen you in the days, months, and years ahead as you recover from your grief.

Mar 07, 2015
To Matthew " s mom
by: Anonymous

I am so sorry for your loss .
I lost my husband 20 months ago and i am so sad.
Only 58.
I can not imagine what you are going through.
Please accept my deepest condolences.
He is a hand sum young man.

Mar 05, 2015
Our last words...
by: Lisa

Dear Jennifer, your words touched me.
My son called my four year old grandson to say he was on his way, but he never arrived.
Instead he hit a particularly nasty piece of road and died.(We discovered later that road had already taken four other young motorcyclists lives).
The police tried to tell me his helmet wasn't fastened, but they didn't know Aaron. (He was involved in a previous incident where he knew his helmet saved his life.)

Nearly six years have passed now and I've learnt so much about myself through my grief.
There are times when I blame myself... If I'd been a better mother etc.
If I'd gone to visit when I could have...
So many regrets if I'm honest.
But I do know my last words were: LOVE YOU as we hung up the phone.

The coroner told me if he'd lived he would have been quadriplegic and I KNOW with every ounce of my being that he'd have hated that.
A stranger was at my son's side. She heard the crash from her kitchen.
I found out about her when I went to buy a local newspaper and the shop girl thought she recognised me from the front page, but it was the stranger.
How Divine was that? A total stranger who could be my twin was at my son's side.


I'm a devout believer that there's more to life than the one we see, and live here on Earth,(and I accept a lot of people think I'm crazy).
It makes me happy to imagine the existence he knows now.

Warmth,
Lisa


Feb 26, 2015
loss
by: Anonymous

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your son Matthew - it is one of the most um-imaginable experiences on earth. Please know that you are not alone in your suffering; we are many. My only child died from an accidental overdose on June 9, 2014. He was the love of my life.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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