Miss you mom

Mom went in for surgery on 6/18/12. Doctor said he was not concerned, she would walk out in 4-5 days. Instead 7 days later we took her home with hospice, she was brain dead in a coma. She died 28 hours after getting home. It was so unexpected. We encourage her to have surgery, because doctor said without it she would be dead in six months, this surgery could give her 20 years. I am so sad over this lost and I want answers! I want to know why I lost my mom. I need her.

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Jul 12, 2012
Lost in sorrow
by: Anonymous

Miss you, I too lost my mother sadly enough on Mothers day. It was very similar to your story. We made her go to this doctor and she was reluctant from day one. We are told the hospital suspects bad practice, but I am not so sure I want answers. Nothing will bring her back, nothing can take or minimize the pain. I just need to know she is in a better place, and that she is still watching over me, because I need her so badly,I always will and life will never be the same.
Bless you in your sorrow.

Jul 12, 2012
Thinking of you
by: Jillian

Dear Friend,My heart went out to you. I lost my mum six weeks ago just when I believed she was improving, after she contracted a hospitial bug.

Yes, you need to found out why things went so wrong. No one can blame you for wanting answers after losing the most precious gift in the world.

But please try and look after yourself. I got a really bad kidney infection and migraine from the shock of losing mum. Now I am trying to eat regularly and sleep a little. Your mum loved you dearly and she would want you to look after your health.
With all my best wishes, Jillian.

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