Miss you ox

by Rachelle

My Brother Andre, passed on March 21, 2010. Still feels like yesterday. The pain has not gone away, "they" say it does but thats just a big fat lie. My only sibling, my best friend, his number one mission in life was always to protect me from harm. He was to be married only two months after his passing, absolutely tragic! My parents still struggle, we were such a close family, family was always number one to us. Without him around, life seems alot harder then it used to be. I now struggle from severe panic attacks that take over my life, everything in life scares me. I want to know he is okay, I wonder where he is every single day...

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Oct 24, 2012
Miss you ox
by: Doreen U.K.

Rachelle I am sorry for your loss of your brother Andre. Life is so tragic now for so many families. So much pain around that I wonder why Grief hurts so much? Why losing a loved one HURTS so badly the pain is so unbearable. I guess if I asked God this question he would say it is because of SIN on the earth. Well let us Hope that Jesus will come to this earth SOON. We are all very tired and fed up with PAIN. We need to be RESCUED.
May God hold you and your family in his arms and Comfort you all and bring you Peace from your Sorrow, Grief, and Pain.

Oct 24, 2012
Just like yesterday
by: Moon

Dear Rachelle,

I deeply feel your pain in my heart. My late husband left on 10 June 2010. He has gone through a very tough and long hard period before he left. Everything happened just like yesterday, I can recall every details of him. I dream of him very often, nearly 2 to 3 times per week. That's the reason why I like sleeping now. Chances are I can meet him and talk to him or even hug him for a while. I feel the very real presence of him in my dreams. I missed him very much.

With love,

Oct 24, 2012
So sorry Rochelle about your brother.
by: Carla

I lost my brother who was also my best friend 8yrs ago. Like your brother mine had an 11yr old daughter who I raised. She is so much like her Dad, but she does not remember much about him.

My beautiful 29yo daughter was brutally murdered on July 23, 2010. She was full of love and life. I say that to say that I have so much raw pain still. My co-workers do not understand that I still cry every day. Grief is one more monster to over come.

I can truly tell you that my daughter has reached out to me to let me know that she is in a beautiful and peaceful place. Each morning I awake up I just remember that makes me one day closer to being with her.

I hope you can find some kind of peace. Please keep coming here and other's will reply with their feed back.

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