Missing my best friend...
My husband Todd of 20 years passed away unexpectedly on Nov 15 2011. Its been almost 5 months...I miss him so much.. to make my grieving worse, my daughter, her fiancee and 4 month grand daughter moved out last month. My 19 year old son then text messaged me the same day to say he was moving in with his girlfriend, even though he said he would be staying at home for a least a year..now I lost my whole family in just 5 short months..I am now living alone..and finding it to be more difficult than I expected. My only consolation is my faith in God. This is a life changing situation for me. Iv'e decided to move in a few months..a move forward with my life...why do most people feel that I should be ok at this time? Iv'e had some say "I should just get over it." What an insensitive thing to say..the death of your spouse, best friend, and love of your life is not something to get over...I didn't expect to be a widow at the age of 52, but am thankful of my many blessings!!