Mom died Oct 12th and she shouldn't of!
I lost my best friend, my everything when my mom died. What makes it worse is the darn Dr's said for months, there is nothing wrong with your mom, she just needs to get up and move so the fluids get out of her. 9 months ago she had triple heart bypass, the fluids never totally came out so she was still going thru rehabs to help, and to get her moving again, she didn't want to do the exercises and she just boohooed about her stomach hurting, her legs hurting, and she was tired a lot. To make a long story short. We were told she had a fatty liver and had it a long time.
So here all this time, her fatty liver turned into cirrhosis then liver failure. Right up till 3 weeks before dying, they never said it was her liver, it was all her organs not working good, and toxins building up, they even did dialysis 3 times saying when she finishes that they will put her on a new heart pill and then she should be on her way to recovery. OMG she had liver failure for months, she had every symptom of it, abdominal pain, loss of appetite, muscle loss, bruising easy, malnutrition, dehydration! After the 3rd dialysis the Drs say, the dialysis isn't working, she has 2 months to live! My mom lived 15 hrs after that and died of liver failure. She was in a lot of pain the last 3 weeks and they did nothing but monitor her organs. I'm sick, just sick about this. I been wanting to know if moms in heaven and if she can hear me if I talk to her, some people told me NO she can't hear me, that really hurts. My mom didn't want to die, she told us to make sure they do whatever they can to keep her alive! Ugh I hate life right now! Can anyone tell me if my moms happy now and if she can hear me?