MOM REST IN PEACE WITH NO MORE PAIN

It has been 5 Days now since she passed in the hospital from Cancer of the Esophagus and Aneurism I am in shock in my body my acid levels are crazy my stomach hurts the loss of a Mother. I would not wish this pain on my worst enemy I have to be strong for her, as I know that is what she would want. The tears fall constantly and I know she is in heaven yet I still wish she was here, her name was Marjorie she was 87 years old. I am 50 now! God give me strength please.

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Nov 16, 2013
MOM REST IN PEACE WITH NO MORE PAIN
by: Doreen UK

I am sorry for your loss of your Mom. This pain of losing a close loved one is the worst pain ever. It affects your whole system for a long time. I felt all beat up with grief and couldn't move off the couch for 6 months. I know every emotion and feeling in your body that you express. Often some of us can't quite express what we are feeling at any one time, and you expressed it so well. The depth of pain we feel is different for everyone, but the pain is the same. I find that life gets easier when you take ONLY ONE DAY AT A TIME. These early days are the worst ever and often one feels they will feel this way forever, but thank God for this site and the posts which say it passes in time. This gives one the hope to go on otherwise our grief would kill us if we felt this way longer than our body could cope with. So don't feel that you must be brave for your mom and not feel hurt by losing her. Grief is never forced. It happens automatically whether we want it or not. The biggest mistake is for any of us to shove that pain down inside of us and not deal with it. I can assure you that it will one day press for resolution and you will feel as if you are having a breakdown and for sure one will then need expert help to deal with the grief. So deal with your grief. Cry when you need to and express your emotions however bad you feel. You can even keep a journal and write out all your feelings and this is another therapeutic way of healing from grief. Write letters to your mom in your journal. I did this after losing my husband 18 months ago and it does heal one.
life will be hard for some time then you will recover from grief. I just wish the process wasn't so slow because I get so tired of the suffering and hurt to my body. It hurts to watch all the Christmas TV Adverts and I can't get involved in the Christmas in quite the same way ever again. I wish you better days ahead and comfort from these early days of losing our mom.

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