MY ONLY DAUGHTER,( HAVE TWO SONS), DIED THREE MONTHS AGO. SHE WAS A NEW Ph.D, great new job, new location. Shortly after arriving at new university was diagnosed inflammatory breast cancer. Shje was 47, mother of a 17 yr old son and happily married. I came from the Midwest to her town, rented an apartment so not to be in their hair and helped out. I was with her when she died. It was a long death and grim. The grim pictures are still too available to me.