Moms gone

by Lloyd

Well I am 43 years old and have lived with my mom my whole life. She has been sick for almost 17 years and was on hospice 3 years. I was also her care giver full time . No brothers , sisters are dad so I feel so lost and can't stop crying. I was blessed to have heard her last words I love you ! And I know she's in a better place but that's not making it easier for me . So sad and lost please pray for me thank you

Comments for Moms gone

Click here to add your own comments

Jan 03, 2013
praying for those whose mothers have passed
by: Sharon

Reading comments here makes me cry. I too lost my mom a few weeks before Christmas. She was on hospice for about four months before going home to be with the Lord. Besides hospice, I was her primary care giver off and on for several years. I have had a whole year to "prepare" for her death but I am so ill prepared. Although I know where my mom is now and her death was only a physical one, the pain is still hard to deal with. I pray every day for my Heavenly Father's comfort.

Jan 03, 2013
For Lloyd
by: Anonymous

Your situation is SO like mine. I feel
the pain reading your words. Each day
is a struggle especially if you lack the
usual support system. Since she died,
I am still looking for a place to share my
pain & be understood. You are NOT
alone, please remember.

Jan 03, 2013
Lost my beloved mother in 2011
by: Anonymous

Being an only child, father died when I
was 3, it was always just the 2 of us all
my 55 yrs. I think my heart cannot take
another minute... but continue on &
wonder why I am still here. I have no
children just cat. Anyone out there like
this mess I'm in?

Dec 23, 2012
Missing mom
by: Lloyd

I miss you mom and love you so much Christmas is not the same without u :(

Dec 22, 2012
Moms gone
by: Doreen U.K.

Lloyd I am so sorry for your loss of your Mom. It is harder for you in your loss because you have no siblings or a Dad to help and support you in your grief. I was caregiver to my husband for over 3yrs. as he was dying of cancer. This in itself is a hard battle to go through caring for someone so very ill. Then after the loss comes our unbearable grief and sorrow.
You will feel so Lost and Alone for a long long time. My son is your age 43yrs. He has just lost his dad and this was hard for him. When you have no further relatives in your family, this can be a very lonely place to be in isolation. Perhaps you have Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, or anyone who can help you through this grief. Don't struggle on your own. There is always grief counsellors to support us through this loss. There is no easy way to go through a loss of a Mom or significant other from your life. WE spend a lifetime with people and when they leave this world we are left with a VOID that cannot be filled with anything. We want that person back to help continue our journey of life with us.
Lloyd it will take time but you will come through your grief in time. TIME is what we have left which can seem longer when we are grieving. I hope you will be comforted in your grief and sorrow from losing your mom and that you will find your way back in life with supportive people to go through life with you.

Click here to add your own comments

Return to Lost Moms.

[?]Subscribe To This Site
  • follow us in feedly
  • Add to My Yahoo!
  • Add to My MSN
  • Subscribe with Bloglines

RSS Feed Widget


Tap into the compassion, support and wisdom of the


Essential Healing Guide

Grief Relief

Free Griefwork

Free Stress

SBI Video Tour!