Hi,I have been now separated since October 2013, married for 13 years & we have three children together. Their ages are 13,10, and 20 months. This time I left the marriage. My husband was married 3 times before me and was also engaged. My husband lied about the three marriages and the engagement, said he was only married twice and didn't come forward until I got to know him better. To cut 13 years down,my husband had an affair in the first three years of our marriage. I found telephone records of the person he phoned, this had been going on for 12 months or so. We separated,he moved out and was seeing her. Evidence was there of this, he denied this once again. Starting to feel that he is a compulsive lier. We recomenced our relationship to give it another try,providing he would come clear with the affair. Marriage was ok for a few years until I found evidence of more emotional affairs. This caused another breakup. He once again moved out. Once again he re-partnered immediately and moved directly from our home to hers. He constantly reminded me via emails, text messages and so forth that she was the "one". A few months had past he stated that there was no real involvement with this woman, he only behaved this way so he could hurt me was his words. I fell pregnant with our third child. My husband denied having any intimate involvement with this women,hence us having a new baby and starting a new chapter in our lives. We started a new business together and for two years it seemed great. I would still ask him if there was involvements, he of course denied this. I received a phone call at our business from the women's partner that my husband was seen leaving her house. To cut a long story short what came out of this was he was romantically involved and lied once again. Within the last month of us being together I found evidence that my husband was on a online date site. As you could imagine another separation. This time I have left the marriage. My husband is again involved with another women, whom is a staff member in our business. My grief is that he filters his information through our children what he is doing with his new partner. He hasn't seen his children in 2 months and wishes to tell them over the phone of the new stepmother. I feel kicked in the teeth once again. Meanwhile I left the marriage without a penny to my name,he took our only vehicle,and denied any funds to me from our joint business He also pays around 20 per week in child support as he falsifies the books.