my baby boy dies in 10 days

by Arjun Singh
(Jalandhar ( Punjab) India)

On 10th of august 2014 my wife born out three babies, 2 boys and a cute girl.

today when I am writing this article, I said because I have just came after the dab of my 1st baby boy in grave because he was on ventilator and my doctor said that its very difficult to save him and I am not so much rich thats why I choose his death and I did not tell to my wife till now while I am writing this article and she is just in front of me and I cant tell her that our one baby is no more.

I am so sad at this moment and I just want to ask one question from god that If he cant save the life of our babies than why he let them born and give pain to us.

I have the last picture of my baby when he died , I was crying and I took his picture so that later I can say sorry to my wife and I can show picture to my wife that our baby looks like that.

Thank You


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Aug 22, 2014
my baby boy dies in 10 days
by: Doreen UK

Arjun God gives life and God takes life and this is a mystery. Because of SIN we die. Your boy died because we live in a fallen sinful world. It was never in God's plan for us to die.
God created man and woman and put them in a garden of Eden and let them live. God then blessed them with children. Cain rose up and killed his brother Abel because of SIN. God could have let Cain die, but he had to remove Adam and Eve from the garden of Eden. Man now has to work all day by the sweat of his brow, and woman has to suffer in childbirth. Death came by Sin. You don't have to actively sin for someone to die. It is just the order of nature and life.
God found a way to save Mankind and sent his son Jesus to die on the cross so that man may live and so God has gone to heaven to prepare a place for those who love him and is coming back for us who believe in him and we will have eternal life with God and see our loved one's again who died. It will be a cleansed purified world in which SIN will never arise again and Man will never die.
But whilst we live on this sinful earth we will all suffer because of sin.
You had to make a choice to let your son go off the ventilator. There was a reason for this. You are not to blame and don't feel the guilt for what decision you had to make. It will take time for your grief to heal. I am sorry for your loss of your son.

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