My beautiful mom died too soon

by Schelia
(killeen, tx)

On December 6, 2012 I lost my mom who was only 44 to a massive heart attack. This was out of nowhere and my mom was very healthy. There are a lot of things I would like to go back and say to her. I had been away for a year and the night before she passed I was able to see her and she was so happy to see me and her grandkids. She leaves behind 4 kids including myself and 4 grandkids. It is so hard to cope. My brother who is 14 is not taking it too well and cries at night. Not too sure what to do. All I think about is death now. R.I.P Mom I love you

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Feb 03, 2013
I feel your pain
by: Anonymous

My mum died on 23rd Aug 2012, from a sudden heart attack in her sleep. She was 54. It doesn't make sense. I'm pregnant (35 weeks now, was 12 weeks gone exactly when she died) and it was her first grandchild. She was so excited and I'm completely lost without her. She really was my best friend, the one I wanted to speak to the minute anything good/bad/funny/irritating/interesting happened. I miss her more every day....

Jan 30, 2013
My beautiful mom died too soon
by: Doreen U.K.

Schelia You are not alone. It is common to want to die when we have lost someone close to us. This feeling will pass as it is only part of your grief. But it is nevertheless a horrible feeling and experience. YES! Your mom was so very young. Who is now taking care of your siblings? Your mom must have married young to have 4 grandkids at age 44. Grief is a slow process but it won't last forever. It is one of the worst pains we will ever go through. Try and get some support from a grief counsellor if any of you feels that they are struggling. I am sorry for your loss.

Jan 30, 2013
Keep your head up
by: Shirley

Hi

My mom passed away peacefully on 20th January 2013 and was buried on 26th. My father has been a great disappointed to both my brother and sis and thus I have taken them under my wing and are currently living with me and hubby.



Slowly we are trying to pick up the pieces, but my father is making it so hard fighting over all my mother’s material things.

I must say this has been a terrible year (2012), and God probably knew that my mother would be better off. She was suffering so much in the last few months and we knew the end was near so we prepared ourselves. My bro unfortunately is in deep depression and I am organising that he sees a counsellor.

At one stage he felt like things would not get better, but I serve a living God and he is our Comforter

My motivation to you is, seek help for your brother and our God will continue to bless you. You have each, so build a strong bond and keep that love chain strong!

Keep well
Shirley

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