My beautiful wife

by Steve Mattson
(Omaha, Ne)

MY BEAUTIFUL WIFE
Happy birthday Lisa!
It has been 4 years, 2 months, and 27 days since your passing....... seems like yesterday, seems like a lifetime. You are ALWAYS in my thoughts and prayers. I still feel your love surround me constantly and am confidant you are aware how much I still love you and will always love you. We shall remain as one in spirit until we are reunited at Heavens gate to be together once again. Love me.

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Sep 01, 2017
6th Birthday in Heaven
by: Steve Mattson

Lisa, it's your sixth birthday in Heaven. When someone you really love passes away it will be the saddest day in your life. You go around for days and you can't believe it, you think it can't be true.... but then you realize it is true. Then, as time slowly and painfully drags on, you get to the point that you, once again, begin to remember all the dreams and happiness that you shared and start to relive all the wonderful times you had together. I still have dreams, but I cherish the memories far more. For me, dying with memories is way better than dying with dreams. Lisa, we had many dreams and we made many great memories together and loving you has made my life worth living! I will always love you! Love me.

Aug 03, 2017
Can you help me understand please
by: Keith

Steve, I am asking for your help. I lost my beautiful wife 3.5 weeks ago, I cannot seem to stop crying at times, seems to hit me at certain times of the day and night. I cannot think about my wife as it triggers emotional responses and crying.

Is this normal? Does this last forever? Did you get on any medication for help?

As you can see, I am lost!

Jun 06, 2017
My Beautiful Wife
by: Steve Mattson

Today marks 5 years since you passed away.
I have missed you each and every day and night.
As I look back on our lives spent together, I have come to realize that my life means more because I knew you. You taught me that love, compassion, and understanding are not just words but gifts freely given without any expectations. Unconditional love will be our legacy. I love you and I miss you a lot.
Love, me.

May 29, 2017
My Beloved Belito
by: Doreen U.K.

Lhen I am so sorry for your loss of your beloved husband to a sudden death. It has been almost 4 months and I know how painful this raw grief pain is. I could not function for 6 months and could do nothing but take ONE DAY AT A TIME. I learned on this site and has helped me so much.
In a sudden death one can be in shock and denial and it can take longer to come to terms with one's loss. If you find yourself struggling you must reach out for help and this is where a good grief counsellor could become of good benefit to help one cope better with grief.
Crying is good grief. Don't hold back here. Every time you cry you are healing.
I lost my husband to a deadly cancer and I lost him 5yrs. ago. I am coping better but I do miss him so much and always will. May God comfort you in your sorrow and bring you His Peace.








May 22, 2017
My Beloved Belito
by: Lhen

I'm so sorry for our loss. My husband passed away last Feb 1, 2017 after my thyroid operation. It was very sudden no goodbyes. I terribly shocked of what happened. Just a wink of an eye he was gone. He had a massive heart attack while eating outside before going home.The sadness and pain still lingers on and coping up is so difficult. I have 2 boys with him. I just live one day at a time. Only God knows my future.I love my husband so much. I miss him so much.

Sep 11, 2016
My beautiful wife
by: Doreen UK

Steve I am sorry for your loss of Lisa some 4yrs. ago. It has been 4yrs. 4 months, 6 days since I lost my beloved husband Steve. I must have posted you at this time since we are almost paralell in our loss of spouse.
How are you really doing? What is life like for you on a daily basis. I know we don't constantly think of our loss with it wearing us down, but it still hurts. I wonder if we can ever find closure if one remains single. Many move on to new relationships and find happiness again so I guess they do find closure of sorts. Remaining single one is still very much alone. WE do continue to move on in life and this can still be hard to do. It is the anniversaries that one has to deal with as it is a memory.
I was in Church and listened to the Pastor talk of how his wife loves to be held. She told him it makes her feel secure. I did feel sad and it hurt to feel this as my loss and I guess we all will feel like this forever. Being and feeling secure in Love. There will always be a memory come back in life to make us remember how life used to be and those simple things that leave us feeling now that sad we have lost that security we once had with our spouse. It is the little things but so important that can leave us feeling the loss of this intimacy.
I hope you go on to have better days ahead and that life treats you well.

Sep 04, 2016
Simply Beautiful
by: Marie

Simply Beautiful. I know we will be united with our loved one's again. After all our God has a perfect plan for us and he loves us. I am looking forward to seeing my beloved husband again. God Bless you. I loved what you wrote, straight from your heart.

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