My beloved mom has gone and we have not sorted out our differences
My mom died suddenly after being rather ill for a while she was 80 years old. I sat with mom for the last few days whilst she died in the hospital, but she did not even seem to know I was there. She had a mild stroke and the blood clot lodged it self at the top of her left leg and as her veins have collapsed as she was on dialysis they would have to have removed the leg. Anyway, mom and I had an argument about three months before and it was really nasty and she said I must stay away. She phoned to speak to my son, but would not speak to me. She was very hurt by the argument. I then only was summonsed to her bed as she was dying. Before the argument we were so close and I think I was just having problems and could not cope and my mom was my rock and I took it out on her. Why did she just not phone me and say lets forget about what happened and not let it happen again. But she refused to talk to me and I just cant seem to deal with this anymore.