My best friend

My sister died so suddenly, she woke up with what she thought was indigestion, but collaspsed and couldn't be ressusarated.. she was only 44..I miss her more than words can say,I want her back..nothing feels right anymore,our family is missing a vital piece. I Want to know where she is and that she is OK..that she is happy..I keep asking for a sign,but I don't think I've had one ,few things have happened like my phone lighting, but when I said is that you do it again..nothing.I am Catholic I believe... But sometimes I am feeling that there is nothing more..and it makes me feel empty

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Jul 31, 2012
by: sarah

Thankyou for your comments,and I am sorry for your loss.I have just ordered a copy of the book.

Jul 31, 2012
Me too !
by: Anastasia

My Brother Just died suddenly on July 13th from stomach pain that turned out to be a ruptured appendix.

My old cell phone that is not even in a paid plan at this time but which I use as an alarm clock keeps getting voice mails that I can not hear.

I too am Catholic but there are so many things happening around me I can not explain.

Jul 31, 2012
My best friend
by: Doreen U.K.

I am sorry for your loss of your sister. Don't feel empty if you don't have a sign. It will come. don't force this. One of the usual signs is to see white feathers. This is a common one. Some people have dreams.
My husband's sister dreamt that her brother (my husband Steve) told her in this dream that he was fed up of people disturbing him in the hospital and he could get no Peace. He also told her to get him tea and toast. He actually demanded tea and toast from her. Before Steve died he complained to me of how he felt when he was disturbed by the nursing staff. He wanted to be left in Peace. When he lost his appetite due to the cancer. If Steve ever felt like eating late at night. I would jump up and eagerly make him what he wanted. What he wanted was TEA & TOAST. I thought this was amazing. There have been other experiences from other relatives. but still amazing. I have 4 sisters, and I don't know what i would do if I lost even one of them. Since my husband Steve died. I am anxious that I might lose one of my sisters or even one of my children. It is a very painfull place to be. I know I will lose my father soon as he is 91yrs. and is so fragile now. It will hurt when it comes, but a relief for him as he has to be cared for now he is disabled. We will never get used to losing our loved ones. IT IS ONE OF THE CRUELTIES OF LIFE.

Jul 30, 2012
I understand you
by: Diego

I lost my beloved and only brother two months ago, he was just 26, he also died suddenly from a heart attack, it was devastating…no words can express the pain and sense of loneliness that I feel inside, I just can’t imagine my future without my brother…but I also believed he is in a better place, and just to let you know my cell phone an Tablet PC also had experienced that “lighting” especially when I’m crying and asking to my brother to show my a sign, I know is him…I want to recommend you a book that has helped me a lot it’s called “90 minutes in Heaven” by Don Piper, you can find it on Kindle Amazon or in any book store, give it a try. Wish you all the best.

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