my buddy my son

by chaudry
(india)

I lost my son 35 brother of three sisters four months ago,i am a zombie eat sleep move talk but like a robot,every thing is meaning less,no more music movies shopping going out,try to put a brave front for my daughters and grand children,i hope things will improve,i hope he is in a better place and we will meet some day,he was too innocent for this world.i wish he was married and had kids for some consolation.I am so sorry for everyone here who has lost a loved one,but losing a child is the worst grief no parents should face.please pray for me and my daughters that we can cope with loss and God keeps him safe and happy upthere and we can meet some day,inshALLAH

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Apr 14, 2014
Your son
by: Kate

I know that your faith in Allah will help you through this.
We are all tied together through the thread of life and when
Someone suffers God knows and is with us in our pain and our sorrow. We. Sometimes can't see it because our grief is so hard and heavy,that is all we see,the pain. You will struggle as a family trying to figure out WHY but there is no answer when death strikes ,it hits us all so hard. Keep with prayer and I will pray as well for you there in india.

Apr 14, 2014
My step-son
by: AnonymousNeil

My step-son lived with us and was not only a son, but a best friend. He had enough of his 'girlfriend' who would not leave him alone. They'd stay together for a time and then she'd blow him off. He loved her little girl and often protected her from her mother's many tirades. He was a tender soul who thought he could 'save' his girlfriend. In the end he saw no escape, but to end his life.Since then we have 'somewhat' been dealing with our loss. I believe this is an accurate explanation as his ex has recently been charged with arson against her next victim.

Apr 14, 2014
thank you
by: Anonymous

kate for your support,grief shred is grief reduced for a while till it strikes again with full force,me and my three girls are on depression medication,life can never be the same ,praying for you and your family

Apr 13, 2014
Your son
by: Kate

I am sorry to see yet another mother facing this pain of death
Of a child. I lost my son 17 months ago at 39. He was also my friend and we were so close,he was not married nor had children. I have 3 daughters and a younger son,each one is special and this has left a huge hole in each of us. This brother was deeply loved by each of us. We still break down only it is not as raw as it was in the beginning. The hurt and loss will always be with us. I too,pray we shall meet again. Death of a child is something deeper than any loss. I have lost mother,father,husband,nephew,neice and sister. No pain like your own child. My heart is with you. Keep close with your prayers for help to endure this horrid loss. It is the only way ,on my own am so weak,strength comes from Him. Take one day at a time, you will learn to heal but it is a difficult process, you come to the point where the pain is too hard to bear everyday and you ask for help to heal even though you feel guilty. It is a roller coaster of emotion, grief. Thinking of you with care and love.

Apr 13, 2014
thank you
by: Anonymous

doreen thank you for your support,God bless you and be with you in this difficult road we both are travelling

Apr 13, 2014
thank you
by: Anonymous

deborah thank you for your support,God bless you and be with you in this difficult road we both are travelling

Apr 13, 2014
thank you
by: Anonymous

dianne thank you for your support,God bless you and be with you in this difficult road we both are travelling

Apr 12, 2014
my buddy my son
by: Doreen UK

I am so sorry for your loss of your Son Buddy at such a young age. No mother is prepared to bury her children. I have 3 Adult children and worried all the time if I should lose any one of them. I just lost my husband of 44yrs. to cancer 2 yrs. ago and this is the worst loss for me. God will go with you through this pain and heartache. But Healing is SLOW. You will recover from grief in time and You will get your life back in time. Stay close to your 3 daughters for support. You can support each other. Having grandchildren does help with grief. They take our minds off our loss and this is also another way to heal. But it is TIME that is going to help us move forward better.
I am sorry for your loss. May God go with you all.

Apr 11, 2014
my buddy my son
by: Deborah

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. This April 20th will be 3 years since "My One Son" and also my only child was murdered. Almost, 9 days lacking, three years and the pain hurts as much today as it did on the day he was murdered. My heart goes out to you for the hurt and pain you are feeling. I do hope for your sake time will help you. I am still waiting for this time to help me. I will have you in my prayers for I know how much you are grieving and in such pain. All I can say to comfort you is I am sure your son knew he was much loved by his mother. Do be gentle to yourself emotions and cry as much as your heart wants to cry. God Bless you for what you are going through.

Apr 11, 2014
my buddy my son
by: dianne

I also lost my son only July yr gone its been nine months to the day he was also my best friend was my eldest yet only 21 I can tell you I felt totally numb for months some days still do but I now have Good days so look ahead to the future one day at a time only blessing I have from my loss is his lil girl came live with me at Xmas and I have his younger bro who reminds me so much of him not a day goes by that Paul's out of my thoughts like I am sure everyone here agrees with we just learn to hide the emptiness we feel almost hollowness in my heart but he will always be my baby no matter how young or old I live in hope that when its my turn ile see his smiling face again and I feel for yourself and your family in the worst experience of our lives at first I questioned god but not no more as I survived days do get easier don't get me wrong I do still have bad days but not as numb as when I first lost my boy big hugs and I hope the replies you receive help you and your family they did me I didn't feel so alone my prayers are with you and your family on our journey we share x

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