My civil parnter of 5 years left me to move to stoke
by laura Hartley
Hi i am 30 and my civil partner is 25. We met 5 years ago on a dating site. Im from nottingham she is from Stoke she loved me that much she moved in with me and came to nottingham leaving her family behind but we did go visit them together. We got married civil parntership we were together 5 years married for 2 years. past year not been that great with each other, she spoke to me terrible sometimes and we went on holiday together in june 2014 and all she did was text on her phone. Her phone would go off at 1am as well. i would say who was that she said none of your buiness. in july she spoke about having children, all i said was lets save up and spend more time together as she worked nearly weekend. she went no i want a child now, im moving back to stoke where my family can support me you dont support me. three days later she put in a transfer for her job to move back to stoke and move jobs. she went im leaving you i hate you and i dont love you no more i want a disvorce from you. i tryed everything she didnt want to sit down or anything her mind was made up. i said lets try for a baby she said dont want one with you now. we split in july but she didnt leave till end of sept. it was mental torture saying she hated me wish i was dead twice to my face. But regarding all this i found out she been texting her female ex over a year while being together. while living with me they would ring each other up every night an hour at a time. my ex wife managed to get every weekend off to travel to stoke so they did things together, but when she was with me she worked nearly every weekend and they did things together while in stoke i knew this coz her ex would text me and tell me. they went clubbing, partying, went alton towers together. my ex wife had her birthday meal with her family she invited her ex along they went to her mums house together. i asked what was going on she said we friends arnt i allowed friends. when i was at work one day she even invited her ex into the house that day got threatning texts off her ex saying its none of my buiness what they do. i knew this as my sister was in at the time at the house. So i dont know if they were together or friends. but i am heartbroken cant stop crying. i know the things she did to me but i still love her and i want to make another go of it. She ingoring me all the time. she blocked me on media sites blocked my number. but i can text her on watts app but she ingoring me all the time i just want to talk to her. She blaming this all on me. saying all my fault im a nasty person etc.