my dad

by sarah
(ireland )

its been nearly 8 months since my dad died. i went on holidays to get a break from all the heartbreak but instead i had more time to think. my dad was taken from us at 61 he went in for an operation a straight forward one too.
all i could think about was what happened around them days. fathers day came and went and i was upset. my dads birthday would have been this friday i now have to face this day which will be really hard. i really want to believe hes with me but some days its so hard to get comfort in that.
its so hard. when i was going on holidays people were saying ah the break will do you good while the sunshine did but it didint make me not think of my dad and how we lost him. i hope hes with me but im finding it so hard with out him. its a struggle.

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Jun 27, 2012
My Dad
by: Anonymous

I lost my Dad on 5/26/2012 so I am going through the mourning myself. Give yourself time to feel his presence. Sometimes we are in such grief that we can not bare to feel the presence of knowing they are always with us. The psychological trauma associated with losing a parent (especially a good parent who showed love and affection) is unbelievable. I find comfort in knowing that love is eternal and that my father is still loving me. Hope his helps.

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