My dear grandma

by Don't want to say

My grandma had liver cancer;stage four. She didn't go to the doctors because she was scared. The day was October 24,2012 at my aunts house. My grandma was on deathbed. My dad sat next to my grandma holding her hand tightly. My grandma opened her eyes and her last sentence was "it's okay son" . Off she went into gods hands. She didn't deserve to leave this early ,she watched me and took really good care of me. I'm now I'm deep depression.

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Mar 16, 2013
My dear grandma
by: Doreen U.K.

When one of our loved one's has cancer it is a very scary place to be in and often one makes a decision based on this fear. Many want to just die naturally without the intervention of Chemo or radiotherapy because they know their cancer is terminal. This is understandable. Whilst we the loved one's cannot understand this decision because we want to hold onto our loved one for as long as possible. What is important is that our loved one is not in pain and can pass away peacefully.
My husband had a deadly cancer that affected his whole body badly from asbestos. He was ill and uncomfortable for 3yrs.39days. I had to look into my husband's face and see his pain of a man who didn't want to die and was scared. My heart broke and this is the image I see every day. I don't know when this memory will change. Cancer is a cruel disease. Death is cruel but we don't have a choice. When our time to die comes we do it as best as we can. My husband died gracefully. Like a lamb to the slaughter. We can never imagine the emotional and mental agony of one who is dying and is scared to die. They would be in agony also of the one's they leave behind.

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