my dearest son

by Albin
(Prescott AZ USA)

I don't know were to begin I lost my mom when I was very young I was angry for losing her to TB I had this anger for over 60 some years till some one told me to write a letter to myself from my mom just write and let it flow I would like to share it with all of you.
MY dearest son you may or my not remember me or you my feel angry I am so sorry for leaving you at such a young age but the time I did have with you,you were my pride and joy and it hurt very much knowing I would not be around to see you grow in to a young man but in time you you will understand. I never left you I was always there watching you through the good times and the bad.I am always there.
Love your mom

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Dec 19, 2013
My Dearest Son
by: Doreen UK

Albin I am sorry for your loss of your mother from TB at such a delicate time of your growing years when you needed the nurturing of a mother. That advice you got was very good and a good way to heal. Writing in a journal is also another way to express one's self and a very healing experience. A good way to fill in the gaps that need to be closed however they come.
Having done the counselling years ago and learned some coping skills I endorse your writing a letter to yourself from your mother to you. Something I have done also and a very cathartic experience. Nurture yourself each day by treating yourself special each day. Something your mother can't do but we each have to do for ourselves when we have no one to encourage us and support us. We just fill ourselves with positive encouragement. It will help the recovery from grief.

Dec 18, 2013
my dearest son
by: dianne

i lost my son at the early age of 21 it was a sudden death I was with him the very same morning which I did almost every day.It was july this year so my feelings are still numb and times are very hard but then again not as bad I miss paul each and every day and I just wanted to say thankyou for your letter it bought a little smile to my face which are very far and in between so thankyou from pauls mum big hug to you and I hope in time u will feel better x

Dec 18, 2013
by: Deb

Your mom has spoken through you and she did not want to leave you at such a young age. She HAS been there and her letter to you is a testament to her heavenly presence.

Please have peace now knowing she is watching and guiding you and will see you on the eternal side someday where all pain will be gone and only happy times together.

Peace be with you and I hope her letter has given you some peace.

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