My Father

by Mona

I lost my father one month ago today on March 8, 2013. It was a long battle with illness and I took care of him for 27 months and loved him to death for 56 years. This has been the worst pain I have ever gone through in my life. Even though he prepared me and I knew one day he would be leaving us no one ever told me just how painful it is. He was my hero. My confidante. My strength. My everything. My life will never be the same now but I know one day he will greet me in the heavens and what a happy day it will be. I am thankful to find this page. God Bless and Daddy Rest in Peace - Your Daughter

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Apr 16, 2013
for Mona
by: Luci

I'm so sorry for the loss of your father. Not all of us are lucky enough to take care of family members and as difficult as it can be at times, it is also a wonderful blessing. No one can undo the pain you're going through. Unfortunately, the pain will always be there, but it will lessen over time and become more manageable. Life is never truly the same for those of us who've lost a parent. But we learn to take them with us as we move through our lives, confident in the fact that at some point we will be joyfully reunited. At least that is what I like to gives me some comfort to keep that thought.

May God bless you and hold you in His care.

Apr 12, 2013
Thank you
by: Mona

Thank you Texas and Doreen your words meant so much to me. I have yet to figure out this site. I am so lost without my father and know I need to concentrate on all I need to do now and it is so difficult.. I am sorry to hear of your loss as well. No one knows like you both said until you go through it and I have been having a hard time going in his room and losing it. I miss him terribly bad and wish I could take care of him all over again even though I was on the verge of a break down from pure exhaustion. That smile on his face told me a story someday I would love to share it here. God Bless you both. I will check back in this site to see your comments. How does one get to your pages?

Rest in Peace Dad - It will never be the same without you. Until we meet again I am forever yours - Your Daughter xoxo

Apr 11, 2013
I understand
by: texastechfan

Continued.... And now my daddy I understand you're not alone if you need to talk please go to my posting on this site..


And leave me a message my best to you

Apr 11, 2013
I understand
by: texastechfan

I lost my dad Jan 20 2013 I was priviledged to be able able to take care of him for the last 9 months of his life I always prayed I'd get more time with him and I did just him and me I told him those times were the best times of my life he was the best person I've ever known and I told him that all the time he'd had physical issues the past 3 yrs went through pain that few people could've endured he had so much patience grace and faith he was my best friend IM so sad I don't know what to do I without him I had my dad 57 years I always told him I was proud to be his daughter days IM just numb I go through the motions my life was better because of him I can't figure out how I'll get by without him I lost my mother 2010 my husband 2011 my two best friends 2012 and this year my dad IM here for you if you need a caring person who understands just leave me a message blessings to you.....

Apr 10, 2013
My Father
by: Doreen U.K.

Mona I am sorry for your loss of your father. Even if we ever say how painful it is to lose someone close we love it is not something one can ever understand until they go through this. The pain is so unbearable we wish we could take some medication that could take this pain away. the suffering is great indeed. We wonder how we can get through it.
What will get us through our grief is the knowledge that Jesus is coming back for us and we will be re-united with our loved one's we have lost. This is our Blessed Hope and eternal life. May God comfort you and all on this grief site so that we can find our way through healing from our grief and that it will be bearable.

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