My fiance of 5 years just up and left
Well it all begins with my birthday a week prior my fiance tells me he wants to do something really special for me for my birthday, says we could go away for the weekend or he would buy me the chandeliers for our home that I have been wanting for so long. I tell him going away wasnt a good idea because I have a debilitating chronic pain condition and I was having the worst few weeks of my life for pain. I cry because I am overwhelmed at his thoughtfulness, the birthdays prior to this were all bad he would just leave me spend my birthday away from me and spend the day with his daughter instead, it was always a disaster. Fast forward to my birthday, Nothing! no acknowledgement Nothing! he goes outside and spends the afternoon with his daughter, I cook dinner for 10 people nothing is said at dinner, then I FINALLY break down and ask him why he isnt spending the day with me. No response. We watch a movie as a family then he excuses himself and off he goes to bed at 6:30 to my grandaughters bedroom??? the next day hes gone when I get up and comes back a few hours later. I am so upset and hurt not only did he not acknowlege me on my birthday, he has 101 reasons why, from not finding time not having money, not knowing what to get? Hugh? he told me what he was going to get and I even showed him the chandeliers. He goes to work he doesnt speak to me I ask him if he feels bad about the way he treated me,he said not at all, AHHH! my heart was aching, I do so much for him on his birthday to make him feel special and loved, I dont get it. I tell him I am so sad and hurt by his actions, and asked him how it made him feel when his daughters mother forgot his birthday when they were together, he gets up and leaves me at 11pm and I havent heard from him. I am so confused, my heart is aching not knowing what just happened.