My husband left me 9 days after we married
He is 76 and I am 77. Within days of the marriage he became quiet and his eyes became emptier and emptier. He said things such as, "We've lost the we in our marriage. On some levels we connect and it is just great but in others we don't." He had professed faith in Christ, but he renounced it. He decompensated before my eyes, left our home and is seeking an annulment of our marriage on the ground of deception. He had some mental illness in the past that I was not aware of. He also says he feels he did not consummate the marriage. I thought he had, but he doesn't feel it was complete on his part. He sees his lawyer in two weeks. I am devastated. He pursued me, pursued the idea of marriage, and then once he had it, he has left it. He is an architect, an intellectual and he has decided my faith in Christ has very unintellectual aspects to it. I still love, but I wonder how I can. Yet it is a strong feeling in me. I would really take him back, yet I don't really think he will ever want that. I told him that it would be okay for him to seek the annulment because I wanted him to have his happiness. We have not spoken since then. Any comments, any suggestions will help me so much.