My husband's Gastric bypass and midlife crisis at the same time..

by Betsy

My husband had gastric bypass in May 2011 and by Sept he started quite a different journey.
His midlife crisis was an added bonus to some interesting behavior.

I really started searching online for answers to so many questions I had.

Turns out that the changes made me do a lot of soul searching and realized more about myself and how strong a woman can be through these changes of life.
He left me in Nov a few weeks before my 40th birthday.

We own the company so everyday we dedicate our work life to making it work
and I'll be honest by saying this is only due to the grace of God.

I am human and sometimes I want a vacation or start anew and not have to work together
but I can also tell any of you spouses out there that everything comes from
Destiny and in my book God has shown me what I was afraid of is only temporary.

Dark times are only temporary and this too shall pass and our lives have worth and value to this world. Just a shout to spouses that feel their world is crumbling... Hold on.. These things are only temporary and God can give you the peace you need ... besides... He has always been the one to carry us when we cannot pick ourselves up...

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