My Mom

by Deb

Today is six months since my Mom has passed away and I can not believe that it has been that long, to me it still feels like it has just happen. Some days are harder than others and today is one of those days. When will the tears and the pain end? This is the hardest death I've had to deal with.

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Jun 10, 2011
me too
by: Anonymous

six months ago for my mom too. I had no idea I would feel this way. We talked several times a week and saw each other usually every week. Sometimes all the phone calls were a pain, sometimes my mom drove me crazy but I miss her more than I ever thought possible and I really just want her back! I still have a lot of tears but not daily anymore. I know we both need more time. Its different for everyone. God bless (and yes I am a little mad at him!)

Apr 17, 2011
by: libby

It has been almost a year now and I still have days when I feel so sad and at first am not sure why. . . then it hits me that it is me missing my Mom. . . still. Hope it comes to a point when I can talk about and remember her without crying but that time is not yet. Last month my dog had to be put to sleep and I can only say it felt like I had but the sadness from loosing my mom on the death of my dog too. It was hard for me to sort out the grief and am still having some trouble with that. God will see me through though, I am sure of that and only that. I feel like my foundation has been shaken.

Apr 12, 2011
My Mom
by: Tina

I never thought losing my Mom 4 weeks ago would be as devastating as it has been. I cry every day. She tried to get me ready, she surely was ready to leave because she was tired of being immobile and unable to care for herself. I love and miss her so much. We were so close and for years I cared for her and she for me. I am not a blog person. This is my first, but I felt compelled to share that we will never get past this loss, but we must get through it. Each of our Moms would not want to be the reason we stop living and loving. Honor your Mom and continue to live day by day until it gets easier and don't forget to love as much, as hard and as fully as she loved you. God help us all!!!

Apr 12, 2011
My Mom
by: Gloria

Its been 8 months here and I wonder every day when its going to get easier. Not only do you grieve the loss of you Mother but then you also have to deal with life everyday. Wish I had the magic answer for you but I don't. I struggle every day and I feel I will for a long time to come. My prayers are with you. All we can do is hang in there and know theres a better day coming.

Apr 12, 2011
I know how you feel!
by: Ilana

I lost my mother close to a year ago and I still can't get over it! This site and the book "Back to Life" [which can be purchased on this site} has been a big help to me. If you don't have a grief counselor, I suggest you talk to one because this has greatly helped me come to terms with my mother's death and my Dad's relationship with me.

I'm told that this gets easier with time and I hope, my friend that you and I can get past this with time!


Apr 11, 2011
by: Gio

Deb, I can definitely identify with you. It's been 3 weeks today and I also had one of those days. Like you, it's by far the toughest pain I've ever known. I am taking it one day at a time, sometimes it's one moment at a time. I take comfort in the fact that my mom always handled everything that came her way, good or bad with grace and acceptance and that is the same way I am dealing with her own death. She left me with some great lessons in life and that is one of them for sure.

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