MY MOTHER LEFT THIS WORLD WITHOUT SEEING ME

by JAYASHREE
(oman)

My mother struggled lot all her life to brought myself and my sister,made us study good,good life everything she gave. Its been nearly 12-13 yrs she is suffering with sickness one after another. then we realised its not body illness, heart sickness, lonenlyness. We tried our best to make her comfort but beyond one point being girls,we unable to support her. I met last my mother in july 2011 , Often we spoke through phone, i heared only her voice, In 2012 May 21st Monday early monring my mother left this world without seeing me. Everyother moment regretting, i missed wonderful meeting with MY MOTHER. Now several time i visist my home town but it is impossible to meet my mother anymore. SHE LEFT THIS WORLD. Everyother moment i am guilty and cry. Asking god several times, taen back her is your wish but if you wdould have thought sure i could have seen my mother.

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Sep 27, 2012
ALL HER LIFE SHE FELT IGNORANCE,LONELYNESS
by: Anonymous

My mother left this world,now once she gone we are both sisters realising all her life she expected from relatives,friends for love and care,affection,whereas people never seen her good heart,this society want status,based on this only everyone gets their love,care everthing,whereas my mother all her life struggled lot to brought her two daughters well,once that committment over,her health always made her to struggle. she expected sort of passifying words,including daughters didnt understand her health,her emotions..Now realising everyother moment atleast we could supported her with passifying words. Everyother moment regretting if we would have given importance,passifying words,accept her point of views. Now its too late.Everyother moment try to forget or forgive myself,but it is imposible.

Sep 27, 2012
My Mother left this world without seeing me
by: Doreen U.K.

Jayashree, I am sorry for your loss of your mother. This is the sadness of children living apart from their parents. When they get sick there is very little support for the mother and the children. Your mother was probably broken hearted with the lonliness of her life and not having someone to help her. You girls as your say could not support your mother. We all need money to live and survive. when this is threatened it causes us depression and sadness. Your mother probably did not have anyone to look after her and provide her with the necessities of life and this added to her burdens.
You will have to grieve and cry over your loss and then try to remember the good times with your mother and build on this. I hope you have other family to help you in your grief and to support you as you both sound so young.
My mother didn't see me for some time and she died and I regret this, but because I was older I was able to grieve better without guilt.

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