My Mother was my very best friend.

by Dena


My Mom died last Thanksgiving of lung cancer. We were so close. She was my best friend in the world. I miss her so much. I can't stop crying. Whenever Im alone I cry. How do you go on when the person who you were the closest to is gone. The is so bad. I feel like no one understands and yet I know they do. I know she would want me to move on but it is so hard. She had so many struggles in life and I feel she never got a chance to have peace in life. All these feelings flood over me and I tell myself it's normal to feel sad but I want to move on and not be so sad but I'm lost without my Mom. She was bigger than life to me. How do I get on with my life when I feel half of it is gone?

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Mar 23, 2012
my mom was my best friend also.
by: Anonymous

Thank you for your post. It helped me tonight. I too loved my mom like no on else and surely she was my best friend. I cry a lot simply because I miss her. I never imagined I could feel this way. Oddly it helps to connect with others who can express their feelings of grief, loss, joy and sometimes laughter. Then I don't feel so alone or misunderstood. Although I don't have children I think of how I would want my daughter to move on in life happily and in peace without me. I also think of my mom when she lost her mom. She was very sad but had so much grace and as difficult as times were for her as I observed, she went on to live her life fully. She gave me so very much to be my best in this world. It's been 1 1/2 years and I hurt every day but I want so much to move on knowing she would be happy and proud of me.I hope you will think of the happiest times you shared with your mom and treasure this gift that so many others didn't have. Know in your heart she is routing you on to become all you were meant to be. That would make her happy and at peace.

Mar 17, 2012
I feel for you
by: lost

My mother was also my best friend. She died eleven months ago 13 days after being diagnosed with ovarian cancer. I feel that at least half of me was buried with her the day she died. She suffered the pains of hell the last few days of her life. I never left her side even for a second. This pain of loosing her is just horrible. I feel this is a bad dream and am waiting to wake up and that she will still be here. No other human being can love you as much as a mother. No other can care for us, cheer for us, advocate for us as much as our precious mothers.They say to move on but it is very difficult when your mother is gone and you just want to hibernate from the world. You are not alone in your suffering people who don't understand your pain have not suffered as you have. Tell them just to support you and not force you to move on until u are ready. I don't have any idea when that will be for me it just seems to get more painful each day!!!!!!!!

Mar 17, 2012
I feel for you
by: lost

My mother was also my best friend. She died eleven months ago 13 days after being diagnosed with ovarian cancer. I feel that at least half of me was buried with her the day she died. She suffered the pains of hell the last few days of her life. I never left her side even for a second. This pain of loosing her is just horrible. I feel this is a bad dream and am waiting to wake up and that she will still be here. No other human being can love you as much as a mother. No other can care for us, cheer for us, advocate for us as much as our precious mothers.They say to move on but it is very difficult when your mother is gone and you just want to hibernate from the world. You are not alone in your suffering people who don't understand your pain have not suffered as you have. Tell them just to support you and not force you to move on until u are ready. I don't have any idea when that will be for me it just seems to get more painful each day!!!!!!!!

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