My only Love, the love of my life

by James
(Warlingham UK)

My Story is told in full on:

http://www.jwhittell.org.uk/

I continue to be filled with grief, sadness and sorrow
My life is empty and gone. My mind is consumed every minute of every day with my darling.
I am in a very bad place.

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Sep 26, 2012
my only love the love of my life
by: silver

I cry as I type this.My husband would have died 2 days after our 33rd anniversary on May 22,2011 if he would have been home. He had trouble breathing and I took him to the hospital. It turned out he had pneumonia and he only had 40% lung power to start with. They put him on a respirator and antibiotics in ICU. Whenever I was with him I held his hand and told him how much I loved him. I begged him not to leave me. I told him how much I needed him.He was 5 months shy of his 63rd birthday.Your strength is an inspiration. How you did what you did I don't know.I guess we don't know until it happens.As I'm sure you know the second hardest thing I ever did was sign the DNR(no extra measures-no CPR)order.The hardest thing I ever did was to tell them to disconnect the respirator after his kidneys failed and his heart was failing. I can only hope he heard me tell him how much I loved him.We both had the blessing of marriage to our SOUL MATE.GOD bless you and give you strength

Sep 17, 2012
MY ONLY LOVE, THE LOVE OF MY LIFE
by: IRWIN DRESNER

HI JAMES,I AM SO SORRY THAT YOU FEELING SO BAD.
MY WIFE DIED ALMOST 3 YEARS AGO AND MY GRIEF IS STILL BAD. HOWEVER I THINK THAT IN MY CASE THE GRIEF IS COMING FROM THE FACT THAT I AM ALL BY MYSELF. MY CHILDREN LIVE FAR AWAY. MY NEIBORS DO NOT EVEN SAY HELLO. I AM AN OLD VETERAN AND I WAS MARRIED ALMOST 50 YEARS. I JUST PRAY THAT YOU FEEL BETTER SOON. MY DAUGHTERS LIVE IN FLORIDA AND I JUST RETURNED FROM VISITING THEM. WHEN I GOT BACK MY GRIEF WAS MUCH WORSE. I BECAME A POET. YOU CAN SEE A NUMBER OF MY POEMS BY GOOGLING MY NAME AND ADDING POET NEXT TO THE NAME. I PRASY THAT YOU FEEL BETTER SOON. WRITE ANYTIME. IRWIN

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