MY SON CANNOT GET PAST HIS GRANDMOTHERS DEATH HE BLAMES HIMSELF AND WISHES HE COULD OF TOOK HER PLACE.

by TRACEY SEXTON
(ELWOOD, IN)

MY MOTHER JUSTIN AND AUSTIN 18 DAYS BEFORE SHE DIED

MY MOTHER JUSTIN AND AUSTIN 18 DAYS BEFORE SHE DIED

MY MOTHER PASSED AWAY ALMOST 5 YEARS AGO AND MY SON HAS NEVER REALLY SHOWN ME ANY KIND OF GRIEF EXCEPT FOR WHEN SHE DIED AND TODAY HE JUST LOST IT. BLAMED HISSELF AND WISHED HE COULD OF TOOK HER PLACE SO SHE DIDN'T HALF TO SUFFER. I FEEL HE IS REALLY CLOSE TO A VERY BAD BREAKDOWN AND I FEEL VERY BAD THAT I DON'T HAVE THE SKILLS TO HELP HIM I HAVE NEVER SEEN HIM THIS WAY BEFORE I HAVE SEEN HIM CRY BUT HE WAS READY TO JUST GO HIT THE FIRST PERSON HE RAN INTO. I FEAR HE IS IN SOME VERY SEVERE SUFFERING AND REALLY NEEDS THOROUGH THERAPY FOR HIMSELF SO HE DOESNT SINK; HIS GRANDMA WOULDNT WANT THAT.

PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME HELP HIM GET OUT OF THIS SPIRAL DOWNWARD

THANK YOU,

TRACEY SEXTON

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Feb 05, 2011
Get him help!
by: Pam

It sounds as if you need to get your son help quick, before he hurts himself or someone else. If he is still in school have him talk to the psychologist, and if he is out of school get him to a professional ASAP. I don't know the words to say, but don't want you to have any more grief then you already do. I'm sure this is killing you inside watching him. Please let us know how all of you are doing.

Feb 04, 2011
Get him help as soon as possible!
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Call the suicide helpline and find out how to get emergency intervention. Even if he is not suicidal (and who really knows...) Find help for him he really needs it right away. He needs to know that it wasn't his fault and find a way to deal with this grief, especially after 5 years.
Please get help do not take this all on yourself you need professionals.

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