My Son Tommy, gone to soon at 23 years of age

by Joe
(West St. Paul, MN)

Dear Tommy my handsome and God loving son,
Today marks 7 weeks that God took you home. My faith tells me that you are now at peace and your earthly struggles are gone, but the pain of your absence is almost unbearable. I see the tears and pain in your mom and sisters and it breaks my heart. I feel I am the one that should be able to fix all the pain and mend their hearts but I can’t. Can you please give your dad a helping hand with that? I have a lot of guilt for not always being there for you and I am sorry, but please know I have ALWAYS LOVED YOU!!! I am and will FOREVER be the proudest parent to call you MY SON!!!!!!!!!!
God bless you my son.
I love and miss you more than words could ever say.

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Sep 29, 2012
My Son Tommy, gone too soon at 23 years of age
by: Doreen U.K.

Joe I am sorry for your loss of your very young son. No wonder your wife and daughters are crying for losing a Son and brother at such a young age. His troubles are all over. But it will never sit well with a parent to lose a son so young. Joe every father wants to look after his families needs and comfort them and just fix it all so there can be harmony again.
It is a very tall task. WE all have our limitations. This is why we have a God. He takes care of what we can't.
Our hearts will break forever when we lose an Adult/child. Children are now dying faster before their parents. It is one of the toughest battles for parents to lose a child. I couldn't bear it if I lost any of my 3 Adult children. I lost my husband to cancer almost 5 months ago. The Void will never be filled. I want to ask God why GRIEF HURTS SO MUCH, to the point that the pain is UNBEARABLE. WE are asked by God not to Grieve as those who have no HOPE. Let us all HOPE for better days through our GRIEF.

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