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My soul mate my husband David

by Aileen Pugh
(Edinburgh Scotland )

I lost my husband 19 months ago he was my life he died aged 57 of lung disease never smoked was the worst day of my life he was my husband & my only friend had 4 children youngest 15 I am still so devastated can't sleep haven't been out the house since he died can't go out without him we did everything together we were married for 36 years I cry everyday for him talk to him ask him to just let me know he's their & ok but nothing I haven't dreamt about him either just writing this is breaking my heart I honestly wished it had been me and not him I'm not a strong person he was we lived for each other & our kids didn't go to pubs or that we were happy in each others company at home apart for when we went holidays I don't know how to get on with my life without him in it miss him so so much don't know what to do ;-(

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David my soulmate my husband
by: Anonymous

Thank you all for your lovely comments we are all or have went through the same pain I can't get on with my life as I can't except that I won't see him again been 19 months and I feel worse I'm really suffering his clothes still hang in his wardrobe I can't move them out feels like I would be accepting he's gone for ever can't do that my family are all grown up apart from my youngest who's 15 I wish I could take her pain away from her she did everything with him she has her own pony he bought her he took her to all the showjumping shows I can't I don't drive and feel so hopeless I was still suffering after losing my dad he was 80 but was still my dad people say he had a good life yes but hasn't made it any easier miss him so much why is life so cruel my Dave was only 57 a good man thought he might have lived till my dads age but not to be does anyone know why I haven't dreamt about my husband I just want to see him even if only in my dreams x

My soulmate my husband Davie, too
by: Angela

I am truly sorry to hear of your loss, unfortunately apart from letting you know i know exactly how you feel there is not much else i can do.My husband,Davie, of 20 yrs died suddenly 8 wks ago(almost).It feels like a lifetime ago since i saw him.since i spoke to him and i miss him SO much.It has been pure hell.I to have been left with our 4 kids the eldest 14 the youngest 8.They cope better than me!!It is difficult but all we can do is take it a minute, an hour at a time.I visit this site a lot.It helps to know there are unfortunately other people going thro this hell to.I live in Rosyth Fife so if you want to contact me if you need to talk ,whatever:
angie11570@hotmail.co.uk
(i can pass you my phone number,if you like)
Take care. XXX

my soul mate /my husband.
by: Kim

I'm so sorry for your loss I couldn't imagine losing my soul mate ..We r not married but we have lived together for 15 yrs I'm 47 and he's 54 and I just can't fathom the thought. I am so sorry for your loss and all that I kno is time ..you just learn to strive through. Yesterday was my step Grandson to me it was his birthday but we lost him just 1 day short of being 3 months old ...1-2-2011 - 4-1-2011. I miss him so so much, S.I.D.S.came like a thief in the night, another thing that takes lives that we don't understand ..I did lose a husband when I was 21 he was 18 we has been married a month ..Not enough time to get to really kno so much about each other but I hurt just the same ..I Loved him. .time made me seal Ans accept that's all AI can say ..except ..My prayers with you and your family ..GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU ..!

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by: Pat J.

Aileen,
For most of us here on this site our husbands were our soulmates. It is a struggle to go on without them, but that is what we must do. You have 4 children that really need you. You lost your husband and they lost their dad. They are hurting also. I lost both my parents-mom,35 years ago,only 50 to breast cancer and dad, 5 years ago-83 to a massive heart attack. I grieved for them, but nothing compares to this grief, except for the loss of a child. My mother-in-law lost her husband 40 years ago to cancer, but she has in the last ten years lost 3 adult children, a daughter 53, a son 51 and now 6 months ago my husband 67 and she says that is the worst grief. I know my grief and hope and pray I never lose a child or grandchild.
We all feel like a part of us died the day our husbands died. I really don't enjoy this new life without my husband, but in time I hope to be able to really live my life again. My husband and I did everything together, so this is very hard for me. I did get through the holidays with the support of my children and my husbands family. I also joined a grief support group through our church and have 3 new widow friends; we're there for each other. Amazing how we can get our greatest support from strangers; we share a bond, we understand.
I really enjoy this site; come to it everyday. I find comfort here; shed tears, because so many posts bring memories of my Leonard. I cherish these memories,because that's all I have now are memories. One day at a time!

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