My sweet allie

by lorraine buck
(chester va)

Twenty eight years ago I lost my eighteen year old son. He was hit by a car, early Mother's day morning. I was 39 and thought my life was over. We went thru a painful couple of years and My family was able to regain our lives back. After many years of happiness and having a wonderful son daughter and two beautiful granddaughters.
eighteen year old allie was in a car accident she also was eighteen. How am I going to do this again? It is so hard to see MY kids suffer so much. Loving her so much I feel the same pain I did for my son, and also feel my children's pain. I know someday we will be okay but how are we going to live without our allie, She was such a wonderful girl everyone loved her.

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Nov 08, 2011
my sweet allie
by: lorraine

I just don't know how we will get through the Holidays without my grandaughter. Thanksgiving and Christmas was always so special to us. I feel so empty inside, we decided not to celebrate and My son and daughter in law, can't come to my house yet, It upsets them too much. The memory of all our happy times is too hurtful. Now I am lost without my family. I miss having our gathering. I love them and will not express to them how I feel. I am looking forward to the day we can get past all of this hurt. I know this will take along time.

Oct 13, 2011
Allie's birthday
by: lorraine

It always helps to know your not alone. Yesterday was allie's birthday. She was 19 she should have been in college with all her friends celebrating. she was going to go to the same college as her sister. They were so close, and I know how much she misses her sister. This year of firsts will be the hardest. I know this from before. Thank you for your kind words

Oct 10, 2011
not much sense to this
by: Anonymous

35 years ago I was 20 and my little sister was killed by a drunk was so painful. 14 months ago my son died from leukemia. He was only 23. It was painful to watch my mom. I know her grief was deepened by watching me suffer like she had. It's so sad and so senseless at times. I'm sorry you have to go through this again. Losing my sister and then my son is agonizing. I can't imagine losing a grandchild and watching my child suffer too. It's hard enough knowing how my surviving children feel as siblings who have lost a brother. Sending lots of hugs to you today.

Oct 10, 2011
Sorry for your loss :(
by: Susie

Praying for you honey. A Grandmother in KS, who lost her son. So very sorry for your family :(
Praying through tears !!

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