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my two adult children and my granddaughter

by ann
(florida)

I went to visit my son who is depressed and he told me to leave and he never wants to hear or see me and my husband for the rest of his life. I told my daughter(who also has a 1 year old what happened with my son. A week later, my daughter called and told me that she doesn't want to see or hear from me or my husband forever. Then she emailed me telling me that she loves me and I will see her in the afterlife. I am devastated. Loosing them forever without them dying. I love my son, my daughter and my grandaughter very much and I'm feeling such a great loss.
Ann

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Losing your adult child
by: Anonymous

I can totally empathize with this lady, as I have lost my adult daughter and grandchildren, and am hated with such poison that I can hardly bear it.
Our family in the past had been very close and a very loving christian family, and my daughter and I were close friends in every way.

My son in law and daughter decided to change their religion, which was not so bad, but it has taken total control of their lives and the rules inside the sect has caused total devastation of our family, which incidentally helps the son in law in his quest to control our daughter in very unsavoury ways.

The deception and evil intentions of our son in law is never ending.

My husband, son and myself were so naive we never knew what was going on, and had embraced this man into our family and lives without knowing what he is capable of.

In the meantime, I have had great trouble moving on, the grief is worse than if our daughter had died. I would never have believed it if anyone had described it to me. What do I hope? that one day she will come back! I can't hope that as it would mean a divorce and pain for the grandchildren, Do I hope she would die? of course not. I hope she is happy and well, and I just have to try to cope with my pain without burdening others.

Atmosphere prior
by: Anonymous

What was the atmosphere prior to your two adult children telling you they nver wanted to see you again?
Something obviously happened, did something get said that can be undone?

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